Friday, March 9, 2018

Never focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.


A cruise ship met with an incident at sea, on the ship was a pair of couple, after having made their way to the lifeboat, they realized that there was only space for one person left.
At this moment, the man pushed the woman behind him and jumped onto the lifeboat himself.
The lady stood on the sinking ship and shouted one sentence to her husband.
The teacher stopped and asked, "What do you think she shouted?"
Most of the students excitedly answered, "I hate you! I was blind!"
Now, the teacher noticed a boy who was silent throughout, she got him to answer and he replied, "Teacher, I believe she would have shouted - Take care of our child!"
The teacher was surprised, asking "Have you heard this story before?"
The boy shook his head, "Nope, but that was what my mum told my dad before she died to disease".
The teacher lamented, "The answer is right".
The cruise sunk, the man went home and brought up their daughter single-handedly.
Many years later after the death of the man, their daughter found his diary while tidying his belongings.
It turns out that when parents went onto the cruise ship, the mother was already diagnosed with a terminal illness.
At the critical moment, the father rushed to the only chance of survival.
He wrote in his diary, "How I wished to sink to the bottom of the ocean with you, but for the sake of our daughter, I can only let you lie forever below the sea alone".
The story is finished, the class was silent.
The teacher knows that the student has understood the moral of the story, that of the good and the evil in the world, there are many complications behind them which are hard to understand.

Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.
 Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.
 Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility.
 Those who apologizes first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.
 Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend.
 Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart.

One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had. Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare... One day our children will see our pictures and ask 'Who are these people?' And we will smile with invisible tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say: 'IT WAS THEM THAT I HAD THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE WITH'.

Life is too short to not to keep your emotions openly. Treasure your moments and the persons you are sharing it with. Every relationship needs to be taken care of. Get motivated friends you will surely succeed one day.

Every person are special in their own way, Never compare yourself to others 

Sunday, December 24, 2017

Never compare yourself to others everybody have their own speciality

                          We often get frustrated when we fail to achieve something which was our goal to achieve and had done everything from our side to succeed. After failing to achieve the predetermined goal all we do is compare ourselves to that person who succeeded ahead of us. We all wonder, "Why our friend has best grades than me, though we study same duration of time, with the same teacher in the same class?"

If you are employed somewhere when your colleague succeeds you too will think "How he/she does that? you labor hard on your work, you commit yourself more and dedicate to be one of the best employee, but still you fail to be the success you have dreamed of. Ultimately you will start loosing faith in yourself, your confidence will be shaken because you start comparing yourself to others


I found this story and like to share with you friends. Which will help you to understand your true value.

                   One day I decided to quit. I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality. I wanted to quit my life and went to the woods to have one last talk with the God,

"God", I asked, "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"
His answer surprised me
"Look around", He said.
"Do you see the fern and the bamboo?" " Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water, The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came  from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said. "In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In  fourth year, again there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit." he said.

Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it would not survive.

He asked me. "Did you know my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots.
"I would not  quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you."
"Don't compare yourself to others". He said, "The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful."

"Your time will come", God said to me. "You will rise high".
"How high should I rise?" I asked.
"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.
"As high as it can? I questioned". "Yes". He said, "Give me glory by raising as high as you can".
Then, I left the forest and returned back to my home.

I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you. Never, Never, Never ever Give up on yourself.

Don't tell God, how big the problem is; instead tell the problem how great God is and how he has always been in your rescue.

All of us want to succeed in what we are doing. We always watch for the person who has succeeded. But we never think what he/she had been  through to reach where he is at the moment. We all see the flying kite up in the sky. But we never realize what pressure(wind) it had to face to reach at that point. Success is never easy if it was, Every body would succeed easily. What story would you have to inspire others to reach at your success level?

So, Friends grow your roots, firm and strong in the ground. Build a base strong enough so that any external factors wouldn't have any effect on you and you would be in the path of success forever.

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Did you know that, We all have four wives in our life. Read this story on why we should always love our first wife ...

Sunday, November 26, 2017

A story about our life you must read once


                   Once there was a king who had four wives. He loved all of his wives but the 4th wife was the one that he adored the most in his life. He always adored her with the finest delicacies. He provided her with the best things. His 3rd wife was really beautiful and he loved to show her off to neighbouring kingdoms. His 2nd wife was very kind, patient and considerate.Whenever the king faced some problems with decision he would go to her and she would help him get through that decision. The 1st wife was a very loyal partner and made a great contribution in maintaining the king's  health and wealth but the king was very ignorant towards her and he hardly took notice of her.

 One day the king fell ill and he knew that he was gonna die soon. He wondered, I  now have four wives with me, but when I die, I' ll be all alone. He called his 4th wife and asked " I loved you the most. When I die, will you follow me to keep me company?" The 4th wife refused and walked away without any word. The king was very sad. The 3rd wife also refused saying, " No, I can't. Life is too good and I am gonna remarry after you die". The king's heart sank listening to those cold words said by his wife.The king then asked his 2nd wife the same question and even she refused to the King saying, No i can't help you on this time. The king was devasted. Then a voice came from outside, "I will go with you no matter when you go" 

King looked up and saw his 1st wife who was looking really dull and suffered. The King said with grief, " I should have taken care of you when I had the chance."

The truth is we all have four wives in our  life.

The 4th wife represents our body. Whole life we try to make it look good but it will leave us when we die.

The 3rd wife represents our wealth and status. When we die it will go to others.

The 2nd wife represents our relatives, family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for us,
the furthest they can stay by us is upto the grave.

The 1st wife represents our Soul. In pursuit of body, wealth and pleasure of this world we often ignore it. Soul is the only thing that will follow. In this world we live for pleasures and sometimes we ignore our Soul and Spirtual being. With all other things, what we should focus most is on our Inner Self- our Soul. Strength and cherish it now, for it it the only part that will follow and be always with us.

We all have greed in ourselves. we want all the best things, all the happiness in our life. We direct our every acitvites in achieving those things. throughout this time we even forget ourselves. You only get this life once. Treasure what you have with you. Maintain hearty relationships with people who carry special place in your heart. Feed your soul well which in return guides you to prosperity.

I hope this story helped you in leading happy life. Please leave your views on the comment section below. 
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Never compare your life to others, Read this beautiful story 

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